Thursday, November 14, 2013

Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People

Here I am sitting on a plane at a time when I would generally be getting ready for bed plagued by a question from my sister in-law earlier in the day. Why do bad things happen to good people? Not an easy question to resolve in a short amount of time but in my best rambling fashion I did my best at a semi concise, cohesive answer that most likely left the listener in much of the same state if not worse than when I started. With a plethora of time on my hands and a desire to put thoughts on paper I hope to provide a slightly clearer response to this question.

Before getting started I would like to throw out a disclaimer of sorts. First, that I have not been through the dire and distressing times that so many go through in these days. I have not known the death of close relatives and friends, I have not known deep debilitating depression, and I am not close to anyone who has battled day and night, month to month with cancer or another devastating illness. If you have been through distressing times my heart and love goes out to you. At the very least I know that it is not easy, that some fight moment by moment to continue and that hope though not easily found is a fountain of joy when it arrives. I desire that nothing I write belittles your pain but brings hope in a God that truly is in control and desires the best for your life.

To answer the question of “Why do bad things happen to good people?” I believe you must first review your terms closely. I believe the Bible is the ultimate source of truth and that is the source from which I will define my terms. In this question I believe it is best to work backwards through the question addressing the subject first; good people.

Typically the thought process behind the question follows the logic that there are some people who make an effort to be good. They treat others fairly well, they give to charity, they go out of their way to help others, and they live a fairly good life. Most would consent that maybe they don’t do everything right, they mess up but in the end they are good people who live honest lives and care about others. First and foremost, regardless of experience and philosophy the Bible must be the source of truth so we must look at what does the Bible say on the matter of good people.  It doesn’t take much study through the Bible before we realize that no one is good. Rom 3:23 for all have sinned, David talking of being sinful in the womb in the Psalms, countless times of men being left to their own devices only to reject God. I would argue that even the most upright action from an unbelieving person is at best only in an effort ultimately to do the right thing for them and not for God revealing the selfishness of their heart. Hebrews states that without faith nothing is pleasing to God.

That still leaves the question of why would bad things happen to people to do believe in God, who do trust and obey and try to live to the glory of God, people who are not righteous in themselves but are made righteous through Jesus Christ. Why would bad things happen to them? That leads us to the next section of the statement. What are the “bad things” that happen to these good people? This is where I find nowhere to turn but faith and trust in Jesus Christ because it does not always make sense to me. He ultimately knows what we need and has our best interest in mind. Romans 8 it says that God works all things out for good to those who love God and are called according to His purpose. Verses 29 and 30 go on to explain what that purpose is; to make us into the likeness of Christ. To make us, like Christ. That is a hard verse to swallow at times. When you are going through depression, deep loss, or illness how do you trust that God will work it out for your good? My only answer is faith in future grace based on past grace. God saved me, He brought me this far, I know His work is true so I will have faith that He will bring me through this trail more like Christ than previously. Although the trial may be more than I can bare, His strength is shown through my weakness. It is not a feeling at this point, it is not something to be reasoned, it is pure unadulterated faith that His word is true. I pray that God would bring comfort to anyone going through a situation like this currently and pray that God would be able to use you mightily in the future because of it.

The last part of the question is, why. I don’t know that we will ever fully know the answer to why. Job tried asking that question and found out that it was too much for him to handle. The God of the universe, who does all things justly, who holds the earth in his hand is supposed to reduce the awesome complexity of why this one thing was allowed to happen to you? Can you imagine all the small details and reasons and unknown situations that lead up to, and resulted out of each and every decision and situation? First and foremost I think the answer is who are we to question God, and yet David and Job did just that. I don’t think it is wrong to ask, and many times God may provide at least a partial answer. It is when we believe we need, deserve or have earned an answer that our self-righteousness becomes prominent.


To wrap up my answer to the question: “Why do bad things happen to good people?”  1) No one is good except God. 2) God allows bad things for His purposes. Why do bad things happen in general is another blog post but for now it is enough to say that those bad things are allowed and that God will work it out for good in the lives of Christians. Sometimes the evil prospers, sometimes the righteous struggle but God holds all things in His hands. That should be comforting to those who trust in Him. 3) It is not always for us to understand why, but we can know that God will perfect those who are saved into His likeness. 

3 comments:

Ronsard28 said...

Hey Roy! I appreciate you tackling this difficult question. I think a definition of terms is crucial when seeking to answer a question like this, and I think you've done admirably.

I also appreciate and agree with the point you made regarding, or something along the lines of recognizing faith is not to be confused with our feelings. The phrase, "Faith, not feelings" comes to mind from my own heritage when I read that thought. It is a helpful reminder to recognize there is a rock we can cling to, and that is our faith. Not blind faith, but faith in a Living God.

The only thing I might ask you to clarify would be the sentiment, at least what I understood you to mean by what I read, that God may not work in the lives of unbelievers. Perhaps you could clarify that further for me? Though not as evident perhaps to themselves or others, I think God could work in the lives of unbelievers. They may not realize what is going on, and He certainly is not as involved as He could be if they choose to follow Him, but I think to an extent, God does work in the lives of unbelievers. I would certainly hope He would work in their lives in such a way as to draw them to Himself.

I may have misunderstood your sentiment, and if I did, please set me straight. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this tough question. Was your sister-in-law able to read this post?

rwturner said...

My point, most likely made poorly was that God has not promised to work things out for good for unbelievers. The phrase "working out for good" as used in Rom 2:28-30 to mean fulfilling God's plan of sanctification in our lives. I believe that God does work in an unbeliever's life as it is only through the work of God that any would come to Him in faith and repentance for salvation. I believe that God is continually working and calling unbeliever's to Himself in many ways including allowing bad things to happen to reveal to them their need for Christ.

Thanks for the opportunity to clarify. I'm not sure if my sister-in-law even knows that I have a blog that I infrequently update.

Ronsard28 said...

Thanks for the clarification. I agree. God does not extend that same promise to nonbelievers.

I'd encourage you to consider writing more frequently. I've been encouraged by the things you've had to share. I know it takes time, a premium commodity for us these days, but with blogspot you could schedule out your posts. That way when a moment of inspiration comes you could compose more than one, schedule it and then you would have more time to think of others. Anyway, just a thought. I've benefited from scheduling on my blog.