Discerning the Will of God

This is a difficult topic to discuss not so much because the Bible does not give clear direction as much as there are so many different thoughts and expectations that it is difficult to not to give the wrong impression.  For that same reason it is a vitally important topic to take about. How do I know what the will of God is for my life? Young people especially struggle with this question as they are making vital life changing decisions. The scripture I want to reference is Rom 12:1-2 but before I do I want to talk about God’s will in a general sense.

Two wills of God

I believe the Bible refers to two types of God’s will. God is in control of everything and nothing happens outside of His control and knowledge. That would be God’s decreed will.  There is also God’s will of obedience. Throughout the Bible God reveals to us his desire for us in everything we do from morality, to how we view and worship God, to how we view and treat others. I believe these verses are talking about God’s will of obedience for a number of reasons which for time I will not go into right now.

Transformation Takes Work

When we were saved we became new creatures in Christ. Our hearts were changed and we have a desire by faith to please and glorify God but God is still in the process of making us to be like Christ. Phil 2:12-13 tells us to work out what God has worked in. We are transformed by the renewing of our minds. This is accomplished by God, through His word. As we read God’s word and come to understand Him better we change our minds to think like He does and to have the desires that He has. Filling our minds with God’s word will show us who he is in any giving situation.

Know God’s Will by Testing and Discerning

Knowing and understanding God’s will does not come by meditating on nothing and waiting for it to come. Do not sit around trying to attribute your own thoughts and feelings to a spiritual voice to discern God’s will. Never in the Bible do you see someone struggling with discerning whether or not God audibly has spoken to them. And never is that spoken word incorrect or inconsequential to their life or the life of others. If God speaks to you directly He will do it such a way that there was no doubt that God has spoken. God has shown us through His word how we are to discern His will for every area of life and never does it involve mysticism, clearing your mind or chanting the same phrase, song or verse over and over. Next I will cover 4 practical and Biblical ways of testing and discerning the will of God and what is good, acceptable, and perfect. 

Testing through Scripture

I would argue this is the single most important tool for discerning God’s will. Anything and everything else should be viewed through the filter of scripture. That is why it is so important for us to be constantly in God’s word, being transformed and renewing our minds. This type of transformation comes from a deep understanding of God’s word in the context of the whole Bible. It takes time, work and prayer to understand God’s word and how to apply it to your life. Years of time, study and experience which leads me into item two.

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            Spiritual Advice/Counseling

Spiritual advice can be very helpful from someone who is outside of the situation. But be very careful who you go to for this advice. The Bible mentions in several places about the younger women going to the older women and younger men to the older men or elders for advice. Godly advice can provide a different perspective on your situation. Be careful as bad advice can be just as detrimental as good advice can be helpful.

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            Prompting and peace of the Holy Spirit

I almost hesitate to even mention this because of the heavy emphasis on mysticism in the church today. At the same time I believe it can be an important factor in discerning God’s will. I would not look at this as a reason as much as assurance of the right direction. The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. If you are grounded firmly in God’s will you should be demonstrating these characteristics. If you are lacking peace, faithfulness, joy etc. then you should look at your life and see why the fruit of the Spirit is lacking in your life. Maybe it is due to decisions you have made or maybe it is because you believe something about God that isn’t true. It may be a small decision of what you believe about a situation or a big decision of being engaged to a certain person without careful thought. The Spirit’s prompting will come through scripture not a feeling, a voice, or goose bumps.

Be weary of the people that tell you to just sit and listen for God's voice, to clear your mind, or even chant scripture over and over to where it becomes a thoughtless process. The Bible never tells us to look within ourselves, our heart, or our own mind for answers but to look to God, His word and to those who are wise in the faith.